Christ-Centered Coaching for the Hardest Parts of Life
Find hope, healing, and direction for sexual integrity, betrayal trauma, identity struggles, and family conflict—grounded in Scripture and guided by the Holy Spirit.
For individuals, couples, parents, and churches seeking peace beneath the surface.
For individuals, couples, and parents longing for lasting peace with God, themselves, and others.
Individuals
For those facing shame, anxiety, unwanted patterns, identity struggles, or emotional overwhelm.
Couples
For marriages needing honest repair, safety, healing, and a deeper path toward trust.
Parents
For parents navigating family conflict, estrangement, or difficult conversations with grace and conviction.
Transformation Beneath the Surface
Every behavior has deeper roots—distorted thoughts, damaged emotions, and deceitful desires shaped by experience, belief, and brokenness.
Through the Icebergology™ Model of Identity and Spiritual Formation, you learn how Christ meets you below the surface—bringing renewal, healing, surrender, and Spirit-led responsive behaviors.
I help Christians who are navigating the places most people do not know how to talk about.
Pornography & Unwanted Sexual Behaviors
Support for those ready to address what is beneath recurring patterns.
Betrayal Trauma
Care for those carrying the pain, confusion, and grief of broken trust.
Identity Confusion
Christ-centered guidance for questions of identity, formation, and belonging.
Family Estrangement or Conflict
Help for estrangement, tension, hard conversations, and relational repair.
Anxiety, Shame, or Emotional Overwhelm
A deeper path for naming what is happening below the surface.
Parenting Challenges
Including support for parents of LGBT-identified children with grace and conviction. Learn more here.
Not sure if it's addiction or something else? Read Rob's free article on Limerence.
No matter your story, Christ invites you to peace—with God, with yourself, and with others.
Guided by Scripture, Formation, and the Holy Spirit
Icebergology™ Coaching Academy exists to help people move beneath surface behavior and into the deeper work of formation, healing, surrender, and peace.
This is not quick-fix advice. It is careful, Christ-centered work for the parts of life where shame, confusion, grief, and conflict often feel too heavy to carry alone.
Choose the level of support that fits the season you are in.
Intensives
- Covenant Marriage Intensive*
- Grace Meets Conviction Parent Intensive*
- Clinical Care Intensive+
- * 4 days | + 5 days
Private Coaching
Individual or couples coaching, offered weekly or biweekly.
Workshops & Webinars
Sexual integrity, betrayal trauma, spiritual formation, identity, parenting, and more.
A Christ-centered path to spiritual formation, emotional healing, and relational peace.
Life Groups guide people through the Icebergology™ framework in a weekly, grace-filled community focused on Scripture, emotional honesty, and practical discipleship.
Support for Churches in Crisis or Transition
When churches face conflict, moral failure, pastoral burnout, division, or theological confusion, outside guidance can bring clarity and peace.
The Icebergology™ Church Assistance Program provides structured support for leaders, staff, elders, and congregations—including conflict resolution, crisis navigation, discipleship renewal, and long-term care.
Safe, Christ-centered care for the places beneath the surface.
For the first time in years, my spouse and I actually understand each other. We felt safe, seen, and spiritually supported every step of the way.
You were the first counselor I found online that really put Bible over psychology without avoiding psychology. This process helped me rediscover my faith and myself.
I’ve done therapy for years and read books, but nothing reached me like this. Rob helped me see not just what I was doing but why and gave me the tools to start living differently.